How to get a man to spoil you pay your bills
As a female hustler, if you want a man to spoil you, then you need to know his secrets as I explained in the how to get money from married men post. Which is why I am going to show you how to get a man to spoil you. Just in case that isn’t enough, you will also get to know how to get a man to pay your bills.
You see, the secret of making money faster is by collecting and using other people’s money. There is no doubt that money is well enjoyed when you are spending that of others. When you are spending your own money, you have this feeling of ‘waste’ singing inside of you.
Don’t worry, that time is over because you will learn to attract men that will spoil you. Whether it’s your boyfriend, man friend, husband, or some random guy, these tricks I am about to share with you works for all of them.
Since we are trying to eliminate any form of trial and error, regarding the guy you will be selected, we will be qualifying them. You can never force a pig to sing, which is why we need to accept that not all men will spoil you with money.
Most of them are struggling and can’t even afford to spoil themselves, talk more of you. So we have to know the man we are selecting to spoil us and pay our bills. This is what will separate you from other girls who are scrambling for crumbs.
Before you understand how to make a man spoil you or get a man to pay your bills without stress, you must carefully select your target.
What makeup such a man?
How to Identify the Right Man to spoil you and Pay Your Bills
Definitely, we are talking about being which I believe is the first quality to look out for in a man. But just being rich doesn’t mean he is going to spend such riches on you. I will show you some signs to show that a guy is the spending type, and he will definitely spend on you.
His Spending Habit
If you see a guy who doesn’t spend on himself, how would you get such a man to spoil you? That will be probably difficult because he doesn’t even value you like himself. To get a man to spoil you, you must know if he has the potentials to spend much on himself and others.
It is no stories that a guy who spends so much on himself can also do the same for a lady. So if you are fortunate to get a guy who spends big, he is a likely asset, go for the kill.
How he spends on others
Once you realize that people praise him so much for spending on them, then you know he is the real deal. Since he already knows how to spend on others, getting him to spoil you wouldn’t be such a big deal.
This is the most important factor you should consider if you need a man to spoil you. No doubt that most guys go overboard to impress a lady, but that won’t last. If you need something sustainable, then he must be financially capable.
I suggest you don’t use his initial spending to judge if he is capable of spoiling you with goodies. Try to genuinely find out where he works and his salary range. That will leave you a clue of how much cash inflow he has always.
If your man is financially stable, you won’t find it difficult to get him to spoil you or get him to pay your bills.
Now that we have seen some qualities that show if a man is capable of spoiling you, how do you then bring it to reality?
I will show you some persuasive, shameless, and manipulative tactics to get a man to spoil you. So if you want a man to pay your bills, then apply some of these I am about to list out.
Techniques to Get a Man to Spoil You like a Queen
Steve Harvey said, “it is your right to get a man to pay for your dinner, club entry fee, and even your movie ticket”.
The sad reality is that most women don’t even know how it feels like to see a man spend on them so well. Right now, you have to use what you have to get what you don’t have. This is the famous rule of a trade by barter!
Unless you meet some real dunce, then you shouldn’t expect any form of trade. When I write trade, I believe you understand what I mean by that. He wants something from you, and you want something from him too. Both of you need each other to satisfy some elements of thirst.
When you learn the rule of exchange, you begin to unlock a lot of opportunities. What you decide to offer during your exchange is strictly at your discretion.
What are some of the techniques to get a man to spoil you?
Work on His Ego
You can expect me to show you all forms of love when you are treating me like a dog. When you treat a man as royalty – I don’t mean you should become a slave, he will respond in kind.
Men are ego beings, but be careful not to flatter. Once a man is able to see through your flattery, it becomes game over for your plans. Genuinely boost his ego and make him feel like he is right on top of the world.
Place him far above his mates, peers, and friends, and he will respond in kind. A man may be careless about several things, may apologize for any wrongdoing first, but wouldn’t lose guard towards his money.
Successful female manipulators understood this trick and it worked perfectly well for them. You can also emulate it – this is a huge secret.
Demand Less and Reject Less
Do you know how it feels when all you do is always demanding? You seem like a liability!
Do you also know how it feels when you keep rejecting gifts and goodies? Most likely you come off as someone on a high horse. Both actions are meant to come off good, but surprisingly, it has adverse effects!
What I recommend is that you demand less; and when a man voluntarily gives you, don’t always be in a haste to say NO.
When you accept the gift, he then understands that you are the receptive type. Times and often after that, there would be more rolling in continuously.
Be Generous at some point
If you are sure he has the finances, then you can pull up a shocker. Offer to pay the bus transport fare (this is less risky). This is a huge manipulative move that would leave him charmed for a long period of time.
No matter how much he pressurizes you not to pay the fare or fee, neglect him and go ahead with it. He will never forget – hopefully he doesn’t propose to you on the spot if you aren’t married yet.
Trade by Barter
At some point, you just got to offer something for you to get a man to spoil you. There’s no way you’d always be at the receiving end of all the goodies.
As a female hustler, you need to understand that the balls on your chest, fat at your back, and the hole between your legs are potent tools for effective manipulation.
To get a man to spoil you, pay your bills, then you should know when to offer and when to withdraw your offer.
- Banging body
- Peace of mind
- Business ideas are examples of things you can offer and make a man feel good.
Always be at your best
This point reminds me of Beauty and the Beast – the movie. While the man is out there hustling and trying to earn money, he might come home looking ugly and haggard. The only sensible thing to do is to look like the morning rose with a nice scented body.
This not only gives him the illusion that you are taken well care of, but he also has this pump to do much more for you.
The result is that you’ve gotten a man to spoil you and spend on you.
Tactically Ask for his Help
Your request shouldn’t come out of the blue sky – but this is your last resort. For your request to be granted, you need to tactically position when to make this request. Never ask for a huge sum during the middle of any month.
In most cases I suggest you wait till the end of the month (28th, 29th, 30th, and 31st), that is when the money hits the account.
While asking, you should consider certain factors as I mentioned in how to beg for money message;
Environment, and certain other factors.
Once they all tick green, then go ahead and ask for a little help. If he fails to give you – DUMP HIM.
These are some of the little tips if you intend to find a cash source – to get a man to spoil you and spend on you. Once you are able to get your manipulative tactics right, then you are good to go!